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Saturday, May 30, 2015

Baby Love ♥

             TELLING THE WORLD!


I have some very sweet and exciting news to share with you all: I’m pregnant!!!
I am in my 5th month now so B and I have been preggers for a quite a while already. This important new page in my life deserves a special page on CB. Blog.com won't let me create posts on a new page, so I have to figure out how to seperate the baby posts from the regular ones. For now I will save them under the category 'Baby Love' in the menu on the right. It will be a fun way for our friends and family, and for you dear readers, to keep up with us and the pregnancy from a distance.
I have so much to tell you and to share with you, I don’t even know where to start.
How/when did this happen? you may ask. Well, we have always wanted kids and planned having a family at some point in the future. We just never really felt the pressure yet. My biological clock was more of a consistent but quiet Swiss watch rather than a big clock on the wall with a cuckoo popping out every hour screaming the living life out of his lounges to remind me that it’s time. But last winter we talked about it a few times and we thought that 2013 might just be the year. Also my friend’s visit last November with her little son sparked my baby fever. And then January 2013 came along…. and I guess the baby couldn’t wait:)
Looks like the little one will be coming mid October. I don’t have a date yet, must ask the Doctor on the next visit. That means that I will be carrying a huge bump in the middle of high season, the hottest months of the year. It’s not easy to make it through the summer heat for any person, never mind a pregnant one. But I know it has been done before and I can do it too.
I will write a little recap of the last couple of months to document my pregnancy and give you an idea of what it’s like for us.
I am so happy and excited about having this baby and becoming a mom, and yes.. a little nervous too but in a good way. And I’m already so in love with my little baby ever since I saw these two pink lines on the pregnancy test. The C above the second line stands for Certain and it became visible right away:) Feeling truly blessed ♥


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Alacati. I came, saw and fell in love..

I’m back from our amazing road trip. And Elif and I both fell in love with Alaçatı.
It’s hard to explain but the minute we arrived in that little old village, where once the Greek and the Turk happily lived together side by side, it felt  like I was home. After a long and beautiful trip through the country, we checked into our sweet hotel, an 150 year old stone house with its eight individual decorated rooms right in the center of Alaçatı. We were welcomed with a glass of cold, homemade lemonade in the little garden.
The center of the town is just absolutely picture postcard beautiful. It feels like diving into history, where the locals have painted their stories and their memories onto the walls of their houses in vibrant shades of blue and decorated them with colorful details. Some of these memories weigh heavily on the hearts of those who remember what it once was, a place where the Greek orthodox and the Turks lived peacefully together, and what has been lost in the forced separation and exchange of immigrants almost ninety years ago. But despite the fact that the Greek have long left, their influence is to be found everywhere in the little village, thanks to the residents who take great care of it. In the windmills, the architecture, the letters on the street signs and in the construction of the mosque that once was a church. It gives this whole area a unique character. It is as if the mix of the Greek and Turkish culture brings forth a new culture, a different way of living altogether. Just like you get beautiful green when you mix yellow and blue.
It is a place where the Bougainville and Jasmine grow like they have never been cut, where the tree branches bend under the heavy weight of ripe pomegranates, figs and olives at this time of the year, where some of the old people talk with a lovely Greek dialect and everyone likes to take their time. It’s a place where you can enjoy delicious home cooked meals in the small restaurants, explore different bays and beaches, taste the local wines, shop for gorgeous arts and crafts in the small boutiques and feel the strong winds from the north and the south playing with your hair almost all year around. There’s beauty all around in Alaçatı; in the nature, the elements, the locals, the houses and gardens, the streets and shops, and in watching the many windsurfers gliding over the water surface in extremely high speed. And all this time I walked around feeling like I was home, as if I had a grandmother there who was living right around the next corner. It felt strange in a very good way.
The touristic season here is very short. It takes place only during July and August. And it’s mostly Turkish people coming from the cities who are visiting. The rest of the year it’s pretty quiet and mostly visited by windsurfers from other parts of the world because of it excellent conditions. Alaçatı has been announced as a protected urban area, and with that come many rules to make sure that it stays like that. So you won’t see any high buildings, no plastic chairs or colorful parasols on the terraces,  loud music at night is forbidden, even in bars in the center, and you won’t find a Döner place anywhere near. All foods and things that have a strong smell or are ugly to the eye are forbidden. And don’t be surprised when your hotel room has no tv. This has been left out on purpose, so you get a real chance to unwind and relax while staying in this village. I can’t tell you how much I was able to appreciate the calm and serenity after those loud and crazy busy months in Alanya.
So we cruised around the peninsula, visited nearby villages, ate delicious Kumru sandwiches for lunch, dived into the cold sea (funny how it doesn’t get warm over summer like in Alanya), slept in a fairytale bed, met Hıdır a very kind journalist from Ankara who now runs a beautiful glass art and antique shop with his wife in Alaçatı, Mustafa the Sheppard,  the 19 year old Serdar, Bașak a shopkeeper from Germany, John from Ireland and others. We went to Çeșme and visited Elif’s niece in Izmir University. Then, on the road back we got lost on the highway somehow (we were on our way to Manisa?!) and missed the bus that we were supposed to catch from Denizli to Alanya at 1 am. So we drove back to Izmir and spent the night on a busy night life square in the Bornova district, drinking coffee with a friendly old man who left Istanbul 23 years ago and never returned because he couldn’t get the girl he loved. Then we drove to Elif’s parents house in the village nearby Denizli where we left the car behind and slept for 2 hours before we took the bus from there to Alanya the next day. By the time we arrived at home that evening we were so tired that it was almost impossible to keep our eyes open. But we also felt extremely inspired by this whole trip. And I just feel so lucky that I get to live in and discover this amazing country in all its diversity. I love it.

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Coming up: Raod Trip!



Yaayyy. I've got a road trip coming up at the end of this week, together with Elif. I LOVE road trips. It’s just the best way to travel a country if you ask me. You get a great chance to discover new sights and to really take in your surroundings. We are taking the bus to Denizli, Elif’s hometown in Turkey, to visit her parents there. From there we will continue by car on the way to Alaçatı, passing through Izmir and Çeșme.
I am so looking forward to discover new and beautiful places in Turkey. My list of ‘must see’ places and cities in this country is endless, but Izmir and Alaçatı have definitely been in my top 5 for a very long time.
I can already see us walking through those narrow streets, paved with cobblestones and full of flowers. Marveling at those old stone houses with their indigo blue window frames and colorful doors. Watching the windsurfers from the shore and enjoying delicious food and wine tasting at night in one of the many picturesque restaurants in town. I can almost smell it, taste it and feel it already from here.
I will be back next week. Hopefully with lots of beautiful pictures to share with you.
Hadi bye bye! xx






















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Izmir trip part 1/5

EPHESUS AND MERYEMANA EVI - THE HOUSE OF VIRGIN MARY


It's been a week since Elif and I are back from our trip to Izmir. 'What made you go there?' you might ask. Well, first of all we had planned a trip to Izmir for a few days of shopping and sight seeing since quite a long time. And Elif was visiting her family close to Denizli at the end of March so it was a perfect opportunity for me to join her there and drive from the village to Izmir together, exploring a bit more of the Ege (Aegean) side.
Alanya - Denizli is a roughly 7 hour bus ride. I know.. it sounds dreadful, but I assure you that busses in Turkey are more comfortable than in Europe. Better equippement, big screen with live tv, films, internet access, playlists and games in front of each seat, wifi, lots of leg space and good service on board offering all kinds of refreshments and snacks. Better than most charter flight companies that I have been on.




We spent a night at her parents holiday house in the village, just outside of Buharkent. The next day we planned to drive by car to Izmir to join Elif's sister and her daughter there, all staying together at their niece's apartment who lives in Izmir, studying music at the Dokuz Eylül Universitesi. But when we travel together no plan is set in stone. We follow our 'gusto' and just take the trip as it comes, discovering new unexpected things along the way and changing our mind on previous made plans quite often.
So we passed a sign to Ephesus, which said the ancient city is only 2 km away, located in the Selçuk district. We took the exit and decided to visit the place. I had never been there before so I couldn't let this one pass. Ephesus was an ancient Greek city and later a major Roman city, the largest one of Roman Asia. With its large harbour it was the second most important city in size, commerce and government after Rome. Today the area that once was the harbor is 5km inland, silted up by the river Cayster. The archeological site is huge. Walking among those ruins, pillars, buildings and avenues.. all built from white stone, you can get an idea of the glorious times that this city once must have lived. Most of the theatre, the bath, the library, temples, gladiator graveyard and terrace houses have been preserved and give a great impression of the city's actual scale.
It makes you feel so fragile, walking there, knowing that those times and this city must have once been so powerful. The people who lived there must have felt like this would last for ever, pretty much how we feel about our cities now. It's a strange thought to realize that one day, we and our powerful cities too will be burried under the surface of the earth, with new civilizations discovering us, walking around on our ruins with god knows what kind of high tech camera's in the far future.










The Library

The Theatre



After seeing this historic site we drove about 7 km into the mountains to visit the house of Meryemana: the Virgin Mary.


We found a small chapel where Mother Mary is believed to have been brought here by Apostel John after the resurrection of Christ and lived during the last period of her life. The site is sacred to both Christians and Muslims and visited by many pilgrims and tourists throughout the year. Muslims also believe in Maria and honor her as the mother of Prophet Jesus.

There is an interesting story to how the house was re-discovered more than 1700 years later, in 1812. The German nun Anne Catherine Emmerich, who was invalid and confined to her bed, once had visions of Virgin Mary and Apostle John traveling from Jerusalem to Ephesus. She also gave a very detailed description of the house, which was recoreded at her bedside by a writer named Brentano. Years later, a French clergyman named Gouyet read Brentano's report and travelled to Ephesus where he found the house and surrounding exactly as sister Emmerich had described. He sent a report to bishops in Paris and Rome but didn't receive a much of a response. Priests and specialists were years later sent to the site again, after a new report had been sent to Izmir. The damaged house and statue of the Virgin had then been restored.

Since 1897 The House of the Virgin was a place of pilgrimage and had also been visited by the Paupes Paul VI, John Paul II and Benedict XVI. There is a spring that runs under the house, its waters are believed to have healing powers and many miracles have been reported. Next to the wishing well there is a wall for people to attach their prayers and wishes to. There is millions of little notes.. and no matter where people come from and what brings them here, most of them wish for love, health and happiness for them and their loved ones.


Every wish and prayer reflecting someone's destiny somewhere in this world.


But what I liked the most of all is that this is a sacred place to both Christians and Muslims. Each year, on August 15, orthodox Catholics and Muslem clergy conduct a service together at this site, one of the very rare occasions this happens anywhere in the world.


And where ever there is peace and harmony, nature flourishes. The shrine is surrounded by beautiful plants and trees, with squirrels playing hide and seek in them:)


More info on Meryemana and sacred places in Turkey: http://www.sacred-destinations.com/turkey/sacred-sites

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Izmir trip part 2/5

ŞIRINCE


Şirince (meaning sweet/cute) is a small hidden village, nestled into the hills of the Central Aeagean Region, about 6 km from the town Selçuk. Şirince was once a Greek village, until the Greco-Turkish War in 1923. The Greek villagers and farmers used to grow vineyards in the valleys sourrounding the village, something the Turkish population picked up on again a couple of decennia later. The village was once called Çirkince (meaning ugly) but luckily for the village the governor of Izmir province wasn't happy with that name and changed it into Şirince back in 1926. Which is a much better name for a pretty village like this one.
Interesting fact about Şirince: you might have heard of this village in the media when it suddenly became famous last year in the hype of December 2012: the end of the world as we know it. For those who believed in the Mayan doomsday, it was said (by whoever decides these things) that Şirince was one of very few villages in the world where people would be safed from any catastrophe because of its special energy and location. Thanks to this rather unusual attention world wide, the little village of 600 inhabitants had been visited by many tourists and even some celebrities around that time. Either seeking refugee or just driven by curiosity, who knows.  But what should really bring you here is the wine and beautiful nature.


The local architecture of the village is now under legal protection in order to preserve its beautiful historical look. It's a lot of fun to walk through the little, rather hilly streets of the village, filled with little shops selling souvenirs, handicrafts, local products and most of all wine. The village produces it's own fruit wines with flavors like peach, melon, cherry, strawberry or blackberry.


Wine tasting is offered everywhere. So I really recommend you to spend the evening there, going from one wine tasting bar to the next, until you've tasted all the flavors, chit chatted with the locals, had a good meal and your head starts spinning.. then it's time to look up a comfortable bed in one of the super cute, renovated pensions which usually have no more than 3 rooms to offer. Have a great homemade breakfast out in the open air the next morning before you leave the little village with a smile and lots of good memories. We couldn't though.. because we had to make it to Izmir the same evening. But we defenitely plan to go back one day to do extactly that. It's gonna be fun. We already found this one that we really liked.



"It's always crowded here on weekends", they told us.

 




Wine tasting.




Pretty flowers in girl's hair



Strolling around

















Şirince souvenirs



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